My dad cheated on my mom with a prostitute...

I wish I was joking - but I'm not.     Late January of this year I found out one of the women my dad was having an affair with was a prostitute. 

My mom went in to pay accounts after my dad had a heart attack and realized that there were a lot of email transfers being made to some strange email address. We typed the email address into google and up came all these advertisements for this gross woman who charges to have sex for money.....   

On one hand it was comforting knowing my dad didn't leave my mom for another woman but on the other hand it's disgusting knowing he was busy with someone like this... someone with such little self respect.   


I can't believe my once trophy dad became one of those guys....... so disappointing. Obviously once we confronted my dad he denied she was a hooker - no surprise there lol

What makes a woman feel it is okay to have sex for money? These people must have had it so bad growing up that they feel that little of themselves.   Maybe I'm being too aggressive but i just don't understand it. I like to think I am a nonjudgemental person but I can't help but stand in judgement of a woman who has sex with married men.... 



Thanks for listening lol.

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Comments (4)

  1. iambloggintoyou

    I couldn’t agree more. Most of Well prostitution is one way of them telling themselves that, that is how my life is, no family, childhood was horrible so they grow up thinking this way. Maybe they were put down too many ways. It is disgusting in many different levels however we can’t seem to stop it, we let it happen illegally. I Hope you and your family is working through what your dad did. And I Hope some how you both can seek forgiveness even though your dad did a very hurtful thing to you and your mom

    October 23, 2013
    1. daddyproblems

      thank you for your feedback- it is greatly appreciated!! Unfortunately the story doesn’t stop there. My dad has actually left the country – he has no plans to return. He left us with huge debt. It was one thing to cheat but another thing to bring us all down with him! Forgiveness is one of the hardest but best/rewarding things in life…. it definitely takes time and has been a challenge so far but we are working on it!

      October 23, 2013
  2. iambloggintoyou

    I’m am so sorry to hear that. Oh my goodness that must have been horrible. Its really sad and I hate reading tragic and horrible stories like this but all I do is love to give advice to a lot of my friends and now that I started blogging too. I Hope your mom finds someone so much better than him and he treats her Well. I know that must have been hard. But stay close with your mom you both need eachother to pick up the pieces. You’ll get there. Praying for you

    October 23, 2013
    1. daddyproblems

      ‘You know that incredibly over used saying "what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? Well I have come to realize it is so true lol. Keep giving advice and sharing your love & positivity… you’ll brighten peoples lives all day long! xx

      October 23, 2013
      1. iambloggintoyou

        Thank you so much. I really Hope this new start will stay good. Good luck

        October 23, 2013
  3. blazed_420

    Dude. PREACH! My dad was my best friend until I was like 12. He cheated on my mom, and he was a total drunk. I can’t stand to be near him sometimes.

    October 23, 2013
    1. daddyproblems

      Wow, sorry to hear that… seriously it’s one of the worst things.. I’ve always had the best relationship with my dad and never in a million years thought he was capable of doing what he’s done! Our relationship will never be the same …. at this point he’s totally made me loose faith in relationships in general haha but life goes on! How did you find out your dad cheated? must have been super hard to deal with at the age of 12!!

      October 23, 2013
      1. blazed_420

        His phone kept going off. And I found all of this porn stuff on my basement computer. I was so disgusted with him. He got angry and blamed me for his marriage failing. I didn’t know what was going on…I’m sorry about your story, too. I ended up turning to God and church. I am in NO WAY perfect…but I am doing whatever I can to live happy.

        October 24, 2013
        1. daddyproblems

          No matter what I just feel it’s important to never lose sight of how beautiful and precious life is so screw the people (including family) who have caused pain and unhappiness at one point or another. Good luck with everything girl! xx

          October 24, 2013
  4. supermom0405

    My parents recently divorced for an affair my father was having. At age 28 it still affected me like I was ten years old. My heart still hurts from it but wrting about has def help.

    December 09, 2013
    1. daddyproblems

      Hey! I haven’t been on here in a long time so I just saw this comment now. Only people who have been through something like this know the exact heart ache we as kids carry around with us.. No matter what age!! I totally agree writing about it really helps. All the best girl💜

      July 11, 2014
  5. pointlesslife

    Obviously your mom cannot satisfied your daddy’s sex life. So he got little help. BIG DEAL!!! smh

    July 11, 2014
    1. daddyproblems

      Lol. It Obviously goes much deeper then that But thanks for pretending like you’ve got it all figured out.

      July 11, 2014
  6. daddyproblems

    my mom has already met another man who makes her so much happier then my dad did. I forgot what it was like to hear her laugh and smile in the company of a man however I feel I am the one whose having a hard time moving on… My mom can easily replace my dad but for me he will always be my father whether I like it or not. Thanks for your feedback

    October 26, 2013